Insecurities

We are all such a waste of our potential, 

like three-way lamps using one-way bulbs.  

~Mignon McLaughlin, The Neurotic's Notebook, 1960

Insecurities
We all have areas in our lives that we feel unstable and insecure about.  We question our own worthiness and if we will ever feel "whole" & happy.  We worry that no one cares about us and we can even feel lonely.  This makes us think negative thoughts about ourselves and life.  Guess what?  When you feel unlovable, that's what you attract.  When you feel insecure, you attract insecure people.  See, life is going to mirror what you believe to be true.  Most people go out and seek other people to make them feel better about themselves or their life.  The opposite is the truth.  First you have to find that love for yourself and your life before a worthy person can come in and love you as you should be.  It's okay to be alone (because remember, you're never truly alone) and take that necessary time to drain out the negative thoughts and insecurities and learn to replace it with love coming from the best place possible, within.  It's time to accept your gifts, your talents, your body, your smile and all.  There is no need to feel less than in any way.  By being here you are more than worthy of happiness, joy, laughter and love.